GametagAeonFlux wrote:That's because you're too shy to just go talk to them yourself. Nothing is a bigger turnoff to a girl than a guy with no confidence. Your sister's friends are only saying that stuff to you because they know you through their sister. If you think normal girls randomly go up to guys and say "lol ur hot", then you have a lot to learn.
Haha, that "lol ur hot" part made me laugh. But yeah I know girls don't randomly do it but I mean girls that tell you hey she likes you sorta thing. Also I do talk to girls it's just that it's not always the girl I talk to that likes me. Oh and I definetly know about the whole turnoff thing happened to my friend when he liked this girl a lot but didn't have the balls to go up to her and say it, turns out she had a boyfriend anyways. As for the whole they know me through my sister thing it's there first time ever seeing me. It happened again today, I go out in the garage just in my boxers and a hat (I stayed home today and sat in my boxers all day, I was sick) and like 20 minutes later my sister goes "Terry, Amber thinks your hot", and there was a lot of things wrong with that. I didn't even know her name, I didn't see her outside, and I never seen her or talked to her, and she was like 13.
Anyways, I don't think I'm that shy, I just don't really ever notice the girl likes me until it's too late, sometimes I definetly try to avoid the girl if I don't like her etc. I don't want to sound like "Imma pimp I pimp these hoes" thing or trying to make myself sound like I get all the girls but this is honestly what goes on and sometimes confuses me.